Be Careful of the Words You Say

It is easy to speak without really thinking.

I do it all the time.

Let me just remind you, it is not really a good plan.

There are a lot of times we can say things without thinking that can be really hurtful to the person we say them to.

I know there have been times I have been talking with a friend, and then something comes out of their mouth that can totally wreck me.

I think, "Really? Did you really just say that?"

I think again and go, "Yep. They did."

I know they don't mean any harm, but sometimes it can really hurt.

If you read through the book of Proverbs, which is one of the books in the Bible known for its wisdom, you can find a lot about how your words are important.

Here is one:

"Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit" (Proverbs: 15:4).

Or later, in verse 23,

"Everyone enjoys a fitting reply; it is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time!"

Check out 18:4...

"Wise words are like deep waters; wisdom flows from the wise like a bubbling brook."

Chapter 18:13 tells us to be careful in how we reply to others:

"Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish."

And check out verses 20-21!

"Wise words satisfy like a good meal; the right words bring satisfaction. The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences."

And skipping to 24...

"There are 'friends' who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother."

This is not all the Bible says about your words. This is merely scratching the surface.

All of this to say...

Be Careful with Your Words!

Give life through what you say, do not tear down.

Encourage by what you say, do not discourage.

Be gentle in your words.

Be loving with your words.

Seek God's wisdom in what to say and how to say it.